So hard to describe yourself online! It would be much easier if someone else could do it for you; it may be more objective! Here it goes, I'm a plus size woman who has spent the majority of her life being fat thin fat thin etc. I've now embraced my big beautiful body, come out of the 'food' closet and am now flaunting what I have. I'm confident, good looking (or so I've been told!), well dressed, intelligent, professionally employed, good humoured with a sharp wit. I say it as it is. It has taken me many years to get where I am today, and I'm looking for a man who not only admires my body, but loves my soul.